if you dont have a vision plan with your fusic then just pull out the micro sd card and drag and drop them into the media folder just like you do the mp3s if you want it as a ringer you will have to send it. it will only plat 3gp and 3g2 video
I hear you.
BTW- It is always better to be specific about the errors you are having- like including the actual error message you are getting.
That way it is more likely someone can/will help you.